Emily :

I and my bf are together about 4 years now. We are madly in love. We understand each other and are very compatible. We already made love many times. My bf always tells me that he wishes to make love with me everyday, especially when we marry. Me, too, but I can't be sure if this will happen, I asked him "you want to make love or just sex/" He said I wanna make love to you, is it something I must appreciate. I know he loves me, but don't know if it's healthy to grow fonder by making  love everyday.

--------------------------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------------------


I don't think it's terribly realistic to think you can make love everyday. And I do agree that it can feel like "just having sex" if it does become a daily requirement. In any good marriage, a balance must be set in order to make each other happy. If he were to persist and want sex, daily, and you find it too much, it could drive a wedge in your marriage. A healthy sex life is good in a marriage, but making love is different than "having sex" -- and sometimes you may have one or the other. Sex is an intimate act, and the more you make love during the process, the closer the bond. Forcing sex is never good, but working together to find the right balance is the best way to maintain a happy union.