I'm male, and I recently started a relationship with a guy and I'm crazy for him -- but whenever he wants to meet up and hang, I end up waiting a half hour and then
he says he has somewhere to be and it hurts my feelings. What should i
do?
-----------------------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-----------------------------------------
To use a time-honored phrase,
tell him "Shape up, or ship out!" You may be crazy about him, but he's
not crazy about you -- or he's simply dysfunctional and wouldn't know
what following through meant even if his flaky little life depended on it. That said, I'm inclined to think he
thinks only of himself -- and you when the rare occasion
strikes.