Dear Miss Emily:
I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 5 years. I recently found out that he cheated on me with more than 1 girl. I read some text that he sent our neighbor and he told her that he is stuck with me for the rest of his life. He told her that if she has any cute friends to tell him and he is still with me. It hurts me so much because i really love him and he tells me he loves me too but why did he tell her that he is tired of me and that he is stuck with me. what should i do what advise do u give me i need your help please i am so hurt because those texts i read. please please help me.

-------------------------------Miss Emily's advice---------------------------

I would take him at his word -- he's tired of you, and stuck with you -- but why wouldn't he get out of the relationship so he no longer had to suffer? That's anyone's guess, unless you're paying the rent and bills. But even if he wants the neighbor to think he's stuck,  and has solicited her to help him find "cute friends" so he can cheat on you (again) -- bottom line: he's an untrustworthy pile of s**t, a wimp AND, in his total disregard for you, is playing you for a fool while hoping the neighbor thinks you're a what -- a dog he doesn't have the heart to send to the pound? He's right about one thing, you are a fool if you continue to stay with him. Do yourself a favor and un-stick this jerk.