Emily:

Hi, ive never really done this be4 and i hope you can help me. i am bi and recently in a relationship with one of my exs. She and I are going on our 2 month anniversary.  i feel like she's the one and we get along most of the time, but i don't feel like she feels the same way. we've been fighting way more since her friend hangs out with us so much, but when we're alone we don't argue at all. we have the best time. another thing that concerns me is her friend hangs around all the time. my girlfriend says there's nothing going on, but i think there is. do you think shes cheating on me with her best friend? can you help me find away to stop all these fights?

---------------------------Miss Emily's advice----------------------

No, I don't think she's necessarily cheating on you with this best friend. She likes her around because her friendship is important in her. She may feel some obligation to spend equal time with her. I suspect the fights are because you feel jealous of their relationship, and she gets defensive. But if I were you, I'd cool it and let this play out how it will. If your girl is more interested in spending time with her friend than having a close, solid relationship with you, she's not ready to have a serious relationship and considers you more of an experience than a commitment. You can't force someone to care, but you can show self-respect, and make decisions based on what's right for you.