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Just Say "No"?
- By Miss Emily
- Published 06/10/2010
- Relationships - Teens
Dear Emily,
There is this boy that i have had history with and we have been friends for the past two years. He wants to get together with me again and i want to but it doesn't seem right to me. I am moving and i think that is the only reason he is asking me out. I love him but I'm not sure what he thinks about me. He is the closest person to me and I don't know how to tell him that i love him. What can you tell me Emily? Thank you for reading.
------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------
Why do you question his motives? If he wants to get together, doesn't that mean he has feelings for you? That said, I'm always one who recommends listening to that inner-voice. If something doesn't seem quite right about it, you probably have some legitimate reasons. Perhaps it's better to move, keep in touch and, if something happens down the line, great. But to start something, only to have to leave it behind, could be harder than just saying, "No."
There is this boy that i have had history with and we have been friends for the past two years. He wants to get together with me again and i want to but it doesn't seem right to me. I am moving and i think that is the only reason he is asking me out. I love him but I'm not sure what he thinks about me. He is the closest person to me and I don't know how to tell him that i love him. What can you tell me Emily? Thank you for reading.
------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------
Why do you question his motives? If he wants to get together, doesn't that mean he has feelings for you? That said, I'm always one who recommends listening to that inner-voice. If something doesn't seem quite right about it, you probably have some legitimate reasons. Perhaps it's better to move, keep in touch and, if something happens down the line, great. But to start something, only to have to leave it behind, could be harder than just saying, "No."

