Dear Miss Emily:

Okay so I'm 15/female,  and i've been talking tob this guy for about 2 years or so. At first, I wasn't attracted to him at all, and I stopped talking to him all together. I didn't reply to his texts, or anything, and he never gave up, after about 3 months of him texting me twice a day, I finally replied. We talked as friends but we were still like flirty. I dated other people and they didn't work, and he was always there for me with advice and everything. A while ago, he started to have feeling for another girl. A much much more attractive girl. I obviously didn't know what i had until then. I told him i was giving up on it, and he told me not to and decided he wanted me again.. We talk everyday, pretty much, and he talks about spending the rest of our lives together. We don't see each other a whole lot, so I don't know if I should trust him. Do you think I should move on?

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I'm not sure what you would have to lose by taking a chance on this guy. It may not work, in the long-run, but how would you know it you didn't give it a try? He seems rather persistent, at least he was, and that can be good, or bad. Bad meaning, the average person might have backed off earlier than he did -- not allow the obsession to persist. That said, he knew what he wanted and went after it. "Spending the rest of our lives together" is a bit over-the-top at fifteen -- but stranger things have happened.