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When A Relationship Gets Lazy
- By Miss Emily
- Published 02/23/2009
- Relationships - Women
Dear Miss Emily:
Is my boyfriend losing interest in me or is he only after the sex? We never have a special moment were we just look into each others eyes and feel that we are in love. We are now dating for 3 years
----------------Miss Emily's advice-------------
Sex you can get anywhere, so I doubt he's only after that. I think the relationship has become stale. All flowers need water, all relationships need nurturing. I would discuss this with him. If he says, "You're crazy -- I love you babe," you have a boyfriend who might be categorized as "clueless" or a drip. You have a responsibility in this, too! Don't put up with a less-than-good relationship. If it's a matter of going nowhere, then maybe it's a habit that needs to be broken. But before you entertain the idea of a break-up, make every effort to revive it. Again, it takes two. If he's not on board, your only recourse is to live with this unsatisfactory relationship, or end it.
Is my boyfriend losing interest in me or is he only after the sex? We never have a special moment were we just look into each others eyes and feel that we are in love. We are now dating for 3 years
----------------Miss Emily's advice-------------
Sex you can get anywhere, so I doubt he's only after that. I think the relationship has become stale. All flowers need water, all relationships need nurturing. I would discuss this with him. If he says, "You're crazy -- I love you babe," you have a boyfriend who might be categorized as "clueless" or a drip. You have a responsibility in this, too! Don't put up with a less-than-good relationship. If it's a matter of going nowhere, then maybe it's a habit that needs to be broken. But before you entertain the idea of a break-up, make every effort to revive it. Again, it takes two. If he's not on board, your only recourse is to live with this unsatisfactory relationship, or end it.
