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Does She Like Me? Part 2
- By Miss Emily
- Published 08/4/2008
- Relationships - Teens
Dear Miss Emily:
I posted "Does she like me?" on relationships teens. I took you advice and it's helped me a lot. On the 13th, as soon as she's back from holiday, I’m spending a whole day with her to get to know her better -- so im looking forward to that! But on Saturday, out of the blue, her older sister started texting me and she randomly texts "I’ve heard a lot about you. A lot of good things." I take that as a good sign but, in a way, I feel like it isn’t 100% true. Like I said before, I have only met the girl 4 times. She may be telling the truth because, as an older sister, she could be looking out for her younger sister – checking on who she’s seeing. But she may also be pulling a joke. I don’t know what to believe and was wondering what do you think? Again, thanks for help so far you have really boosted my confidence.
Curious
------------------------Miss Emily’s advice-------------------
Dear Curious:
This girl probably wrote you a text, because her sister has been talking about you – a lot! It also might have been her way of showing you she likes you, but doing it in a roundabout way. She could be hoping that you write back with some nice things to say about her. We really don’t know for sure, but please stop over-analyzing this because, if you do, it puts doubt in your mind. Being female, I remember talking my head off when I liked some guy, even if I had just met him! It only takes a few sparks to start a fire. Lose the insecurity over this, and focus on the day you spend with this girl. Be yourself – be a good listener – relax and enjoy it. Many relationships are ruined by high expectations and a failure to keep self-doubt in check. It looks like a go, to me. But do me a favor, and let me know what happens.
I posted "Does she like me?" on relationships teens. I took you advice and it's helped me a lot. On the 13th, as soon as she's back from holiday, I’m spending a whole day with her to get to know her better -- so im looking forward to that! But on Saturday, out of the blue, her older sister started texting me and she randomly texts "I’ve heard a lot about you. A lot of good things." I take that as a good sign but, in a way, I feel like it isn’t 100% true. Like I said before, I have only met the girl 4 times. She may be telling the truth because, as an older sister, she could be looking out for her younger sister – checking on who she’s seeing. But she may also be pulling a joke. I don’t know what to believe and was wondering what do you think? Again, thanks for help so far you have really boosted my confidence.
Curious
------------------------Miss Emily’s advice-------------------
Dear Curious:
This girl probably wrote you a text, because her sister has been talking about you – a lot! It also might have been her way of showing you she likes you, but doing it in a roundabout way. She could be hoping that you write back with some nice things to say about her. We really don’t know for sure, but please stop over-analyzing this because, if you do, it puts doubt in your mind. Being female, I remember talking my head off when I liked some guy, even if I had just met him! It only takes a few sparks to start a fire. Lose the insecurity over this, and focus on the day you spend with this girl. Be yourself – be a good listener – relax and enjoy it. Many relationships are ruined by high expectations and a failure to keep self-doubt in check. It looks like a go, to me. But do me a favor, and let me know what happens.
