Dear Miss Emily,

I need advice on what to do in the following situation:  My boyfriend bought me for Xmas a piece furniture he thought would look cool in my (small, studio) apartment. The problem is: A) My place is exactly how I want it. I am an amateur interior designer, and I don't need extra furniture. B) What he got is not even my style, and I have no place (dark corner) in the apt to at least keep it. C) He has put so much effort into it and it breaks my heart to tell him, it was a BIG MISTAKE, and I want that thing out of my home!  When I opened it, I tried to be gracious, but he could tell I didn't like it. I said I would think about it to make him feel better, but I really already know there is no way I will keep it.  How do I break it to him nicely?  Thank you.

---------------------------------Miss Emily's advice---------------------------

There may be a woman on the planet who would stick it in a prominent place, and suck it up, but that wouldn't be me.  I would not want to, say... put a Barcalounger in a room filled with french country! He really missed the memo that said you are proud of the way you've decorated, and you wouldn't change a thing. You can be kind about it, but there's nothing you can do other than be honest. He likes it, and he will probably take it to his apartment to display it proudly. The problem with gift giving is that people often choose what they would like to receive (their taste), rather than being insightful as to what the person receiving the gift would truly appreciate. Other than this oversight, I hope he's a great guy, and perfect for you.