Dear Miss Emily:

I am a college student and I am 21 now. It's about 2 years that I've loved someone, and he started it by his actions. He then invited me to be one of his yahoo friends, but he hasn't said anything yet. It's been 2 years that I wonder if he loves me, or not. I love him more than myself, and I know I can't do without him. He made magic in my life! How can I start it? Is it right that I ask him? I can't forget him. Please  help me. I'm looking forward to your response.

---------------------------Miss Emily's advice-----------------------------

He may have started the ball rolling, but he put his foot on it once it got going. You have the cart before the horse in this emotionally fragile situation. He may have been attentive, at first, but to love him more than yourself, at this point, seems unrealistic, and a tad delusional. I think you need to get this settled after two years. If he's not interested in pursuing something, for whatever reason (and there could be many having nothing to do with you), don't delay in finding out. Write him an e-mail on Yahoo friends and see if he responds in order to get a dialog going with him. If he doesn't act on it, I think it's long overdue to move on with your life no matter how painful the realization.