In
my opinion, you don't pop anyone in the face to deal with a problem.
That is what boys are told to settle their differences, but even that
seems extreme in most cases. That said, a punch to a kid on the
playground, if you're a ten year old boy, isn't all that out of order.
But for you, no. You may not get into trouble with your mother, but you
could get into trouble with the girl's parents, and, in today's society,
your family could be sued. Walk away from the drama, and don't feed
into it in any way. Keep your lip zipped, yet take responsibility for any role you play in it. It's hard to be in a drama
when only one person is involved. If this girl is harassing you, or
threatening you, you need to go to someone with some authority to handle
it (the school) or, ultimately, the police if you are physically
threatened by her. No one
should have power over you in this way. People love to create drama when
they have nothing else going on in their lives. I feel terrible for
you, I do, but having thoughts of suicide because of one big pain in the
butt (this girl) is flat-out wrong. You need to take your power back,
and work on a solution that is best for you. Not violence, but taking
control of your life on an emotional level. Smart people (you) use their
brains, not their fists.
