Dear Miss Emily:
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I love my very old friend.I know him since 6 yrs but he does not love me. But still we went out together to a hill station, and there i had sex with him. I done because i love him, but he done just to have fun. So what should i do -- should i tell him my feelings, if yes, then how please help me i am so confuse.

-----------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------

You can't go back and change the fact that you had sex with him, and I hope you used protection! But you can change your future, and that is by being honest with him and putting your needs before his. Tell him you simply cannot have sex with him, again, because your feelings for him go beyond friendship, at least right now, and it will only get your heart broken if he doesn't feel the same. That way, it's out in the open and he can take responsibility for his behavior, and you can take responsibility for yours.