Hi Emily,
My boyfriend and I have been dating since high school and it's been 2 years now.. When we started dating he used to show so
much love and caring and now I feel that it's all gone,, Moreover, we have sex almost everyday, and I feel sex is the main basis of our relationship... Plus, there's another thing thing I need your advice on. Is it okay if I pay for my boyfriend a lot.. Whenever we go out 2 eat I'm usually paying.It's not that he ask me 2 pay, I just don't want him 2 spend money but, instead, I want him 2 save it.

------------------------------Miss Emily' advice----------------------------

It would seem the relationship has become quite stale, or it might have run its course. Sex may be all you and he have together, because none of the other important aspects of a good relationship are intact. In order to sustain a quality relationship you need common interests that take you out of the bedroom and into shared experiences in the real world. Of course you should not be paying the lion's share of any activity that cost money. I have no idea why it's more important for him to save it, and not you. Were this relationship to end, I'm thinking you'll wish you had some of that money back! Have a heart-to-heart talk with him and see if you and he can add some spark to the relationship by creating an interest in new activities. Don't be joined at the hip, and be willing to show some independence away from each other. But it takes two to get things back on track. If he's not on-board, I think he's either satisfied with a relationship that has only sex and you picking up the tab, or he simply doesn't care enough about the relationship to change it. If either one of those is the reason for this stalled relationship, I'd consider a break from each other in order to put things in perspective.