Dear Miss Emily:

My best friend has never actually liked a guy, so I hooked her up with someone we just recently met. It's been two days, and they love each other. I'm happy for them but, now, they are getting closer, he's asking her to join their little "group." I'm friends with some in this group, but they only want my best friend to be in it. I don't really care, but she's just been acting really weird and, for some reason, she kinda ditches me for her bf and I'm scared if she"ll ever be my friend again...please help me :(

----------------------------------Miss Emily's advice---------------------------

I think the two of them falling in love in two days seems rather rapid to me, and there's no telling what will happen down the line. The sad thing, when this happens, the friend is often excluded because her friend now has a guy in her life, love is in bloom, and he's number one, now! It's so common, and she's blinded by the fact she finally has a guy in her life! Don't feel excluded, please. In spite of the fact that she's getting involved with this group, she's happy, now, and that sometimes causes the person to be exceedingly selfish. Give her time to work this out. I know, it's hard to accept, because it seems as if you're no longer important in her life but, in time, I think she'll come around. If not, she's not the friend you thought she was to you. In the meantime, get busy doing other things, with other friends.