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He Thinks He's Single!
- By Miss Emily
- Published 06/29/2011
- Relationships - Women
Dear Miss Emily:
I've been seeing someone right now for 4 months. He's 27 and I'm 21. Lately, I've been wondering if I should continue on seeing him. We always meet up at least once a week and i would spend a night in his place. We have fun whenever we meet up. We always try to visit some new places and do fun activities together. We would make meals together. One time, we went to an amusement park and saw this 27 pinball inside. He likes playing pinball and took some pictures of them. He then posted the pics in his facebook account and under is his comment saying " When a couple of buddies and I went to (park)". I got a little confused about it since he was with me that time and just me. I asked him if he ever been to that amusement park with his friends and he said no. Should I be alarmed about that? Does it mean he doesn't want anyone else to know about me? Lately, he's been answering a lot of calls while with me and spends so much time with that. Some of the calls are from his friend and his sister. I dont want to complain but, usually, they would only talk about movies and dreams. And he would only look at me while I wait for him. I'm not saying anything to him, because i dont want to look like im clingy and full of drama. Also a girl asked him in his "myyearbook" account if he's dating anyone, and he said he's single. I wanna ask him about our relationship, if we even have a relationship! But I don't want to scare him, or make him think like I'm crazy about him. He's a good guy, he donates and volunteers. What should I do?
------------------------------Miss Emily's advice----------------------
I've been seeing someone right now for 4 months. He's 27 and I'm 21. Lately, I've been wondering if I should continue on seeing him. We always meet up at least once a week and i would spend a night in his place. We have fun whenever we meet up. We always try to visit some new places and do fun activities together. We would make meals together. One time, we went to an amusement park and saw this 27 pinball inside. He likes playing pinball and took some pictures of them. He then posted the pics in his facebook account and under is his comment saying " When a couple of buddies and I went to (park)". I got a little confused about it since he was with me that time and just me. I asked him if he ever been to that amusement park with his friends and he said no. Should I be alarmed about that? Does it mean he doesn't want anyone else to know about me? Lately, he's been answering a lot of calls while with me and spends so much time with that. Some of the calls are from his friend and his sister. I dont want to complain but, usually, they would only talk about movies and dreams. And he would only look at me while I wait for him. I'm not saying anything to him, because i dont want to look like im clingy and full of drama. Also a girl asked him in his "myyearbook" account if he's dating anyone, and he said he's single. I wanna ask him about our relationship, if we even have a relationship! But I don't want to scare him, or make him think like I'm crazy about him. He's a good guy, he donates and volunteers. What should I do?
------------------------------Miss Emily's advice----------------------
In his mind, apparently, he thinks of himself as being single -- yet sees you once a week when you and he have a good time together. To be talking on the phone, frequently, at your expense, is just plain rude. He may be talking to other girls, as well, and he's "burning the candle at both ends." If you're afraid to confront him on his behavior, then judge it on your own and walk out of the relationship you think you have with him, but he doesn't. If you want commitment, he isn't the guy who can give it to you.
