Dear Miss Emily:

I am a 18 year old female and I'm interested in a guy. Ane he's interested in me, but here's the catch -- he's married. He wants to leave his wife for me, but I dont know what to tell him. The last thing i would want is for her to get hurt.

--------------------------Miss Emily's advice--------------------------

Well, his wife is going to be hurt if he leaves her for you, but that goes with the territory. You'd be smart to exit the relationship until he does leave her, however. It's an age-old story that some guys say they'll leave, but don't, with a million excuses as to why it's not happening. It's said "love is blind," but until you get some sight concerning this matter, it may be you who gets hurt the most.