Dear Miss Emily:

 My friend likes this guy, but she is married. Should she tell him shel likes him?

------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-----------------------

If she is considering cheating in her marriage, something is bound to happen someday, with someone. Cheating can backfire in a big way, and she'd have to be willing to risk everything. If she falls in love with him, that makes it even dicier. She can tell him, but he may take a pass. Gossip may fly if he's only flattered, but not interested. Guys love to share that kind of info! But if he's on-board, she'll be off to the races in a relationship that can bring tremendous joy, and an incredible amount of heartache. That said, if she has a desire to hook-up with him, any warning may fall on deaf ears.