I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend, got back with him -- and then he wanted to marry me. Now he said lets take a break so we can see other people and get it out of the way so we can be together. I am having a hard time with him now. It's like I want to be with because he is the only guy I have ever committed to, and have been completely loyal to, but it's so weird now. What should I do?

-------------------------------Miss Emily's advice---------------------

Do it his way. You don't want to jump into anything, nor think you can force him to feel differently than he does. Granted, he seems to be all over the map in this relationship -- but when you're talking about something as serious as marriage, the commitment has to be made with all of his heart for a successful outcome. 50% of marriages end in divorce. That's indicative of our times, but when kids are involved, that's when it gets to be complicated. Often, the children are caught in the middle, and it can lead to a great deal of heartache. Make sure your feelings for him are honest and real, and you don't want him back because he's all you've known. A commitment should have trust, respect, compatibility, and friendship at its foundation. You absolutely do not want to rush into anything this serious without having these key elements. Perhaps you should consider seeing other people. However, if that's not in the cards for you, at least let this on-and-off-again boyfriend have his freedom to do what he thinks is best for him. You don't want him to be in a relationship with you if his commitment is wavering. You'll end up resentful, and angry at yourself for accepting less than what you want -- and deserve.