Dear Miss Emily:

I received a spiteful email at work. It was about me, but not meant for me to see. How should I respond?

--------------------------------Miss Emily's advice----------------------------

I would write back to the original sender (with the nasty message attached) and write this:  "I'm sorry, but this e-mail was sent to me, and I'm sure you didn't want me to see it. Next time, it would be a good idea to check your address file." Of course, you shouldn't have to say you're sorry, but it throws a little sarcasm to this unfortunate occurrence. Now the ball's in that person's court if he, or she wants to make it up to you -- if possible. At least you've alerted the person that you haven't been left in the dark on an issue that truly enlightened you!  Emily