Dear Miss Emily:

I really need help.....I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months but, now, we are taking a break. We are just writing notes back and forth forth to each other telling each other how we feel about different things, but he just told me me was bisexual. I don't know what to do? He's getting me confused, because before he told me he was bisexual, he told me he didn't wanna be with me -- but then he does! I don't know what to do. I really need you help please....

-----------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------

It was good of him to finally admit it, but if he's bi-sexual, he might already be experimenting with guys, and that's not a good place to be -- for you! I think if he's having any sexual contact, as well, he could be engaging in risky behavior. But even if he isn't, I do think this revelation is a reason for NOT getting back together. Usually, when a guy admits this, he's interested enough in a same sex relationship where it could interfere with a quality relationship. If I were you, I'd have second thoughts about wanting to go for round 2. He's told you about his sexuality, and I think you should want more than worry, and issues over trust with him. If you and he do get back together, and you and he are having sexual contact, please, always use protection. STDs are widely common, and you would not want to be exposed to HIV.  Tests, now, might be warranted.