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Break-up Promp Thoughts Of Suicide
- By Miss Emily
- Published 01/10/2011
- Relationships - Men
Dear Miss Emily:
Hi, I'm a 26 year-old male. A year and a half ago I told this 21 years old girl that I loved her and we started a beautiful love story since then. But 2 months ago, she started to change and she didn't care about anything. I kept asking her what was wrong until one day she told me that she doesn't feel the same way toward me and doesn't love me as much as she used to. And all of that was because I sometimes get too busy and don't call her. But I love her, I truly do and told her I wanted to marry her whenever she finished collage. I tried to explain things to her, and I did all that I could to show her I'm sorry for the times I did not call her. But it's useless because she refuses me, and even worse now, she rarely answers my calls and never asks about me. I tried to commit suicide but each time I try, I can't and just run to the phone and call her to try to get her back. Please help me. I am losing my mind. I love her.
-------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-----------------------
If you tried to commit suicide, your troubles go deeper than losing this girl. Your worth should be determined by another individual. I can't imagine that if this girl truly loved you, she would use the excuse that you didn't keep in touch that much as the reason for breaking it off with you. Perhaps someone else has turned her head and, if that's the case, you're simply going to have to accept it. Calling her incessantly will only drive her further away. Your desperation will make her realize that leaving you was the right decision. Make an appointment to see a doctor -- immediately. You should also discuss this issue with a therapist -- but at least ask the doctor to prescribe an anti-depressants to help you get past this horrible ordeal. She won't reconsider her relationship with you if you are unstable.You need to find your footing. An emotionally stronger you, is the only way you'll get through this -- with or without her. Your life is important, and suicide is not the answer. Any family you have should be notified that you are in need of support. Please let me know how you are doing. I care.
Hi, I'm a 26 year-old male. A year and a half ago I told this 21 years old girl that I loved her and we started a beautiful love story since then. But 2 months ago, she started to change and she didn't care about anything. I kept asking her what was wrong until one day she told me that she doesn't feel the same way toward me and doesn't love me as much as she used to. And all of that was because I sometimes get too busy and don't call her. But I love her, I truly do and told her I wanted to marry her whenever she finished collage. I tried to explain things to her, and I did all that I could to show her I'm sorry for the times I did not call her. But it's useless because she refuses me, and even worse now, she rarely answers my calls and never asks about me. I tried to commit suicide but each time I try, I can't and just run to the phone and call her to try to get her back. Please help me. I am losing my mind. I love her.
-------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-----------------------
If you tried to commit suicide, your troubles go deeper than losing this girl. Your worth should be determined by another individual. I can't imagine that if this girl truly loved you, she would use the excuse that you didn't keep in touch that much as the reason for breaking it off with you. Perhaps someone else has turned her head and, if that's the case, you're simply going to have to accept it. Calling her incessantly will only drive her further away. Your desperation will make her realize that leaving you was the right decision. Make an appointment to see a doctor -- immediately. You should also discuss this issue with a therapist -- but at least ask the doctor to prescribe an anti-depressants to help you get past this horrible ordeal. She won't reconsider her relationship with you if you are unstable.You need to find your footing. An emotionally stronger you, is the only way you'll get through this -- with or without her. Your life is important, and suicide is not the answer. Any family you have should be notified that you are in need of support. Please let me know how you are doing. I care.
