Miss Emily,

I've recently started dating this guy, and he is amazing, but he is known for cheating. He promises me that he won't, but he flirts with a lot of girls. I feel like he is avoiding me. I don't know what to do. I've tried to not think about it, but it always wonders back into my thoughts. I don't want to ask him about it because what if he denies it?

---------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------

I'm sure you're a special girl, but a guy who is known for cheating seems to think all girls are special! I don't know why he's avoiding you. That doesn't seem right if you consider yourself dating him. I think your inner-voice speaks more truth than his vow to be faithful. Cheating is not uncommon. as you know, and I get mega-letters concerning this issue. But you seem especially worried, and I'm not sure he's worth the trouble when all is said and done. Amazing seems to be a word I see a lot from my advice seekers. Sometimes these "amazing" bees want to spread their "amazing" pollen to more than one flower. You are right to be wary.