Dear Miss Emily:

I'm getting a divorce but I really liking my ex-husbands cousin. What should I do? Is it wrong to like his cousin?

--------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-----------------------

It's not wrong, it's only how much you can take any backlash from your ex, and his family if you were to get involved with his cousin. If you think it would be a living hell carrying on a relationship with that kind of pressure, I wouldn't venture into it because it would, ultimately, destroy the relationship. There are too many men out there who offer less drama, and you don't need that after going through a divorce -- which is enough drama without entertaining any more, right? That is what I would consider before taking the leap.