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Kiss And Tell?
- By Miss Emily
- Published 11/9/2010
- Relationships - Teens
Dear Miss Emily:
Okay, so at the end of the school year last year I kissed and made out with three different girls.(I'm a girl, too). They was my first kisses and it kind of got me experienced. I'm not lesbian or Bi. I'm really straight but, now, I'm dating this guy who's already made out and kissed someone, and I've kissed him a lot and we wanna take it up a notch. But when he asked me if I made out with another guy I said no, cause I didn't, but what he doesn't know is I HAVE made out with someone before, it just happened to be a girl. And like I want him to know so he doesn't think I'm inexperienced but I can't tell him it's a girl cause he'll probably not like me anymore.. and like if I did tell him i had made out with someone before, he'd have thought I cheated on him because he was my 'first kiss' from a guy.. so i don't know what to do. Please help me. How should I tell him, or should I?
-----------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------
He doesn't need to know about your past experience. There are some things you can keep between you and you. I wish I had a dollar for every time I"ve written that in my advice column! If you're a good kisser, now, so what if he thinks he's the first? Keep your lip zipped and carry on as usual. But when you say "take it up a notch" don't do anything you'll regret. In other words, you have the right to say no, and always keep in mind the repercussions of your actions. And by that I mean, any sexual activity that would include unintended pregnancy or STDs. I'm just trying to cover all bases here, sweet one.
Okay, so at the end of the school year last year I kissed and made out with three different girls.(I'm a girl, too). They was my first kisses and it kind of got me experienced. I'm not lesbian or Bi. I'm really straight but, now, I'm dating this guy who's already made out and kissed someone, and I've kissed him a lot and we wanna take it up a notch. But when he asked me if I made out with another guy I said no, cause I didn't, but what he doesn't know is I HAVE made out with someone before, it just happened to be a girl. And like I want him to know so he doesn't think I'm inexperienced but I can't tell him it's a girl cause he'll probably not like me anymore.. and like if I did tell him i had made out with someone before, he'd have thought I cheated on him because he was my 'first kiss' from a guy.. so i don't know what to do. Please help me. How should I tell him, or should I?
-----------------------------------Miss Emily's advice-------------------------
He doesn't need to know about your past experience. There are some things you can keep between you and you. I wish I had a dollar for every time I"ve written that in my advice column! If you're a good kisser, now, so what if he thinks he's the first? Keep your lip zipped and carry on as usual. But when you say "take it up a notch" don't do anything you'll regret. In other words, you have the right to say no, and always keep in mind the repercussions of your actions. And by that I mean, any sexual activity that would include unintended pregnancy or STDs. I'm just trying to cover all bases here, sweet one.
