Dear Emily,

Recently, my boyfriend has been pressuring me to participate in a threesome.  I do not feel comfortable with doing it, and he seems to not want to take no for an answer.  He makes me feel guilty about it and I just don't know what to do! What do you think?

--------------------------------Miss Emily's advice--------------------------

Here's what to do: You look at him right in the eyes and say this: "No. End of discussion." If he persists, you're going to have to decide if you want to stay with a guy who doesn't give a rat's ass about what you think -- at least in matters as important as this. Just because he lacks a sensitivity chip, it doesn't mean you lack one called self-respect.If he ever brings up a three-way, again, tell him he'd better be talking about a light bulb.