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Three-way
- By Miss Emily
- Published 10/14/2010
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Dear Miss Emily:
About 1 1/2 years ago i met this guy that i was interested in. Right off there seemed to be a mutual attraction and he began to seem really interested. A few months after meeting he finally asked me out and i was thrilled! We set up a date for a few nights later, and he said he would call. He never did...so, i called him and never got a response. I let it go and avoided him for a few months. I eventually ran into him again, and it was as if nothing had happened. I saw him regularly after that and he, once again, seemed interested and we even shared a kiss. He asked me out, and stupid me accepted. We set up a night and time, and he never called or tried to contact me. The hurt and disappointment was extremely overwhelming because i thought for sure he was serious about it. I finally sent him a text and asked him what had happened and all he could tell me was that he "had no excuse for doing it". Well, i ran into a buddy of his not too long after and he made a comment that made me sick to my stomach. Let me tell you before i continue that i have a twin sister who was also acquainted with him and his buddies. His friend made reference that my guy and a couple of his buddies had a bet going to see who could "get a threesome" with my sister and me. I was devastated and hurt that this might be true. We have never even thought of doing such a thing! My sis and i had both been acquainted with them for some time and thought that they liked and respected us. I still have contact with him randomly, and i have many times tried to ask if it is true but he acts like he doesn't know what i am talking about. I have tried, tried, tried to stop thinking about it but can't seem to at all. It still breaks my heart and i just can't figure out why it has taken so long to get over it. I never let guys affect me like this. Why can't i get over him?
-------------------------------Ask Miss Emily---------------------------
He's a bit of a bottom feeder and, of course, you need to understand that he's not worth your time. Any guy who has the motive of a threesome with twins has a vivid imagination and, also, a shallow mind if he asked you out with that intent. But I must say, you were lucky he didn't take you out and make the proposition after a nice dinner. That's when the sick stomach would come into play -- although puking on him might have been fitting. To tell you he had "no excuses" is a stunning display of insensitivity. You can't forget him, because I think you want to prove to him you are a viable person, with or without your sister, and he's simply missing out on a good thing. And I believe that too, but this creep is too immature, and selfish to care about your feelings -- and I would get him out of my mind pronto. I wouldn't care if he looked like an Adonis and had eyes of sparking blue, he's one of life's jerks -- and until he realizes it, he's going to continue to think about three ways, rather than another person's feelings. And that, my dear, you do not want! And if you think you do, write back to me and we can get to the bottom of why that would be the case.
About 1 1/2 years ago i met this guy that i was interested in. Right off there seemed to be a mutual attraction and he began to seem really interested. A few months after meeting he finally asked me out and i was thrilled! We set up a date for a few nights later, and he said he would call. He never did...so, i called him and never got a response. I let it go and avoided him for a few months. I eventually ran into him again, and it was as if nothing had happened. I saw him regularly after that and he, once again, seemed interested and we even shared a kiss. He asked me out, and stupid me accepted. We set up a night and time, and he never called or tried to contact me. The hurt and disappointment was extremely overwhelming because i thought for sure he was serious about it. I finally sent him a text and asked him what had happened and all he could tell me was that he "had no excuse for doing it". Well, i ran into a buddy of his not too long after and he made a comment that made me sick to my stomach. Let me tell you before i continue that i have a twin sister who was also acquainted with him and his buddies. His friend made reference that my guy and a couple of his buddies had a bet going to see who could "get a threesome" with my sister and me. I was devastated and hurt that this might be true. We have never even thought of doing such a thing! My sis and i had both been acquainted with them for some time and thought that they liked and respected us. I still have contact with him randomly, and i have many times tried to ask if it is true but he acts like he doesn't know what i am talking about. I have tried, tried, tried to stop thinking about it but can't seem to at all. It still breaks my heart and i just can't figure out why it has taken so long to get over it. I never let guys affect me like this. Why can't i get over him?
-------------------------------Ask Miss Emily---------------------------
He's a bit of a bottom feeder and, of course, you need to understand that he's not worth your time. Any guy who has the motive of a threesome with twins has a vivid imagination and, also, a shallow mind if he asked you out with that intent. But I must say, you were lucky he didn't take you out and make the proposition after a nice dinner. That's when the sick stomach would come into play -- although puking on him might have been fitting. To tell you he had "no excuses" is a stunning display of insensitivity. You can't forget him, because I think you want to prove to him you are a viable person, with or without your sister, and he's simply missing out on a good thing. And I believe that too, but this creep is too immature, and selfish to care about your feelings -- and I would get him out of my mind pronto. I wouldn't care if he looked like an Adonis and had eyes of sparking blue, he's one of life's jerks -- and until he realizes it, he's going to continue to think about three ways, rather than another person's feelings. And that, my dear, you do not want! And if you think you do, write back to me and we can get to the bottom of why that would be the case.
