I doubt it. He seems resentful, as if he blames you for all that's happened to him -- rather than take responsibility for his own actions. But that's probably a part of his personality of which you were already aware. Don't internalize his anger -- although I know you've been hurt by him. He has new obligations, of his own making, and he should step-up-to-the-plate and face it like a man. If he's not up for the task, so be it. Be calm, and cut him off when he starts to spew the vitriol. You have children with him, and they come first. Take the high road, because it's he who has to deal with the choice he made, not you!