Hi there.

Myself and my girlfriend had an argument about trust. My girlfriend now wants the names of my last 2 relationships to ask them questions. I do not think that this is a good idea. I love this women, and we plan on getting married. What should I do?

----------------------------Miss Emily's advice----------------------

If she can't trust you unless she has the input of your past two relationships, I see trouble ahead. She has to know you, and accept you by her own set of standards and not be dictated by someone else. And what if these women did give you a less than stellar grade, she'd dump you? I'd tell her this, "If our future depends on the opinions of others, I'd rather not get married." Trust is the cornerstone of any successful marriage, and if you haven't proved you are trustworthy, by now, you probably never will.